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Learn swimming in a swimming pool. Love is a swimming pool where you are protected and you can learn; then you can go to the seas, to the wild seas. You cannot take the
jump into the wild seas directly - if you take, you will be in danger
- that's not possible. Love is a small swimming pool - two persons only:
the whole world very small...possible to enter into each other. In a swimming pool you are afraid that "I may be gone, drowned." Then what to say about ocean? Love is the first grounding, the first readiness to take a greater jump. I teach you love, and I tell you that whatsoever is at stake, don't bother: sacrifice it, whatsoever - prestige, wealth, family, society, culture - whatsoever is at stake, don't bother. Be a gambler because there is nothing like love. If you lose everything, you lose nothing if you gain love. If you lose love, whatsoever you gain you gain nothing. And be aware: these two things.
Love in an anti-social
force, and the society tries to suppress love; then you can be used in
many ways. For example, if you are really in love, you cannot be made
a soldier; you cannot be sent to war. Impossible because you don't bother...You
say, "What is a country? What is this patriotism? Nonsense!" Love is such
a beautiful flower; one who has known - patriotism, nationalism, country,
the flag, all look nonsense. You have tasted the real thing. The real thing should
not be tasted. Then you are hankering for love, and your love can be diverted
to any direction. It can become patriotism; then you can go and become
a martyr. You are a fool, because you are wasting yourself! You can go
and die; your love has been diverted. If you don't love, your love can
become love of money. Then you become an accumulator, hoarder. Then your
family is happy - you are doing beautifully. The family is happy because you are accumulating so much wealth. They missed their life; now they are forcing you to miss your life. And they do it in such a loving way that you cannot say no also. They make you feel guilty. If you hoard money they are happy. But how can a man who loves hoard? Difficult.
A lover shares, distributes,
goes on giving; a lover cannot hoard. But that richness is not visible.
So in the whole world,
religion, society, culture, they are in conspiracy because you have one
one energy: that is love energy. If it moves rightly into love, then it
cannot be forced to move anywhere else. If you don't love, your very missing
may become a research into science.
You just remember.
Just try to watch your own mind. If you have not loved you woman for few
days, you are constantly irritated. You love and you relax. Irritation
goes, and you feel so good - you can forgive. A lover can forgive everything.
Love has been such a blessing, he can forgive all that is wrong.
Realize this, watch
this, be aware of this - and then love is so simple; nothing is more simple
than that. Drop all that society needs; remember your inner needs. That
is not going against society. You are simply, trying to enrich your own
life. You are not here to fulfill anybody else's expectations. You are
here for your thing - for your own fulfillment.
You
need not become rebellious, like a revolutionary, because that too again
is coming to the same thing. If your love is not fulfilled, you will become
a revolutionary, because that too is a destruction in garb. And then comes
the real problem: drop your own ego. Love needs total surrender. Prayer may lead to meditation. That's why Jesus insists:
"God is Love!"
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