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ESTABLISHING SOCIAL BOUNDARIES


"That's not my problem!"

Many problems arise in life when we have not sorted out our own social (chakra) boundaries. Then we get confused about our interactions with other people. Then we can be vulnerable to any external influence. We can easily become a sponge for other people's problems and negativity. We can easily become a doormat for other peoples dirty shoes. We can become an atlas figure for other peoples problems and issues.

This is not a balanced or healthy situation to be in. Unnecessarily taking on the burdens of others can make us very ill - it can even kill us.

We can begin to remedy this situation by establishing social boundaries in our lives. This helps us to distinguish between our own life and others. We must establish our own relationship and attitudes towards our own chakras, then we have a firm foundation with which to judge where problems are occurring in our social relationships - what is our problem and what is not.

This is especially crucial for intimate and family relationships where it is quite easy for boundaries to blur and minds to become confused.

For example: A work mate is continually cutting, aggressive, and unfriendly. To begin with we must check our attitude to see if the fault lies with our own behaviour. If we can find no reason why we should be treated in such a negative manner then we can establish that the other's attitude is a product of their own unhappiness and problems. We are not the fault, just the recipient of their negative energy. We can only do this once we have firmly established our own personality. We can use the structure of the seven chakras to help us establish a personality.

We need to be able to assert ourselves properly. This is a crucial life skill.

Some people pretend that they have no problems, they deny their unhappiness because it is too painful to look at. They will not take responsibility for their problems - they are too egotistical, proud, and arrogant. They have no humility to honestly assess their own personality and thus they are always projecting out their unhappiness onto external situations and other people.

When we project our problems onto other people thenwe create problems for other people. This is not being harmless. This is against the Laws of Successful Spiritual Living. This creates negativity for other people and this is not right conduct. Then we cannot understand why we are unpopular and why other people treat us coldly or avoid us.

We need to learn to pick up the signals that our environment is providing us with and try to adapt to it. It is good to seek out wise and trustworthy counsel. We can ease this process by using ENERGY ENHANCEMENT and the seven chakra system.

If we don't do something about our problems they don't go away. They build up and we end up carrying around many sour and painful burdens that will prevent us from feeling happy. Whatever is going on within us is broadcasted to the outside world in our general mood and behaviour - our personal atmosphere, our Aura. As within, so without. Most people are sensitive enough to detect when we are experiencing difficulty and when we are unhappy. That is why we must be honest with ourselves concerning our own life - however painful this honesty may be at first, it can only lead us to deal with our problems - which is good.

People who are in denial, who never assess their life, who never attend to their depth, remain stuck in infantile behaviour, often blaming other people and exhibiting the dramas of infantile emotions and the dreaded attention seeking strategies. These things are far, far worse than the first painful steps of honest self assessment because denial means that we cannot get to the real problems and find the solutions.

With denial, we quickly develop a false personality as a way of dealing with the problems. This may by useful when we are in a dangerous or confusing situation, but we can get stuck with a false personality for life.

 

 



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