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        In various ways great   Masters have tried to bring home this truth to seekers and an incident comes to   my mind—a very familiar story and not too ancient. It was in the life of Sri   Ramakrishna, the spiritual preceptor of the famous Swami Vivekananda. In his   early life, Sri Ramakrishna was a priest in a Hindu temple in Calcutta, then the   Capital City of India. This temple was founded by a lady who was something of a   small queen. The wife of a native ruler and a lady of immense riches, she had   the temple built with a fabulous sum of money and endowed it with rich lands.   She was a very devout lady in spite of her great wealth and affluence. Apart   from her concern of looking after her property, her life was spiritual.   Occasionally, she would drop in at the temple at the time of worship and sit in   the sanctum. Sri Ramakrishna was a young priest at that time, perhaps   twenty-four or twenty-five years of age, and on this occasion, this great lady   having purified herself with a bath in the Ganges, was sitting just inside the   sanctum, meditating. The worship came to a certain stage where the Deity had to   be hymned with praises and glorification and, just before Sri Ramakrishna was   about to burst into song, this lady said, “Would you please sing this particular   song?”; and he said “Yes” and started hymning the Divine Mother. As he was   singing, suddenly, he was seen to stop, turn to this great lady and give her a   resounding slap on the back. And he just said, “What! Here too!” That was all   and he recommenced singing. There were armed guards nearby who had followed this   lady to the temple, and some of the highest officials of the temple, and all   were simply stunned. Some started to tremble and one or two were thinking, “Now   this man’s life has come to a close. Perhaps she will order him to be bound up   immediately”; but much to their surprise, just as though she were a daughter   being chastised by her father, she suddenly became docile and kept quiet and   began intently to attend to the song. When the song was over, the service   proceeded and, at the end of the service, she came out as if nothing had   happened. The officials and the guards were just waiting and wondering, “What is   going to happen now?” And the superintendent asked her, “Have you any orders? I   observed what happened, but I could not step inside the sanctum, and so I could   not do anything”. The queen simply said, “No. There are no orders”. Later on,   her son-in-law, who was managing the temple on her behalf, came to hear of this   incident and asked her about it. She said: “He (Ramakrishna) was perfectly   right. I had asked him to hymn the Divine Mother, because it was the Mother who   was enshrined there, and while he was singing, I was thinking of a law-suit   coming off tomorrow at the City High Court about the estate and was worrying   about it. I was not thinking of anything else—the Divine Mother or the song he   was singing in Her praise. It was the law-suit which was occupying my mind, and   so I had to be pulled up and he did it...It was not really he who did it, but it   was the Divine Mother who did it”. So this lady, even when she was in the   temple, was not really in the temple, but was in the Law Court. It is what you   are within yourself that determines whether you are leading a spiritual life or   a worldly life, and not the place you are in. That gives the secret of living a   Yogic life in and through the world.  Everything can become Yogic   if you spiritualize your life, and the method of spiritualizing life has been   expounded in the most glorious way in the most sacred scripture, the Bhagavad   Gita. Yoga is union with the Divine and if you live your life in constant   inner union with the Divine through a link of great devotion to Him, through a   link of genuine love for the Supreme, then whatever you may do, wherever you may   be, and in whatever manner you may be living, you are living a life of Yoga:   for, you are living with God and you are at one with God in your inner life.  Such a life of at-oneness   with God, such a life of conscious effort to be for ever united with Him in love  and devotion, and an   awareness that the whole of this life is meant for totally consummating or   perfecting such union—that is Divine Life. It is a life of Yoga. If you are   consciously trying all the time to reach out towards Him in spirit, to draw   nearer and nearer to Him day by day, then you are living a life of Yoga, no   matter what shape your external life might take.  This spirit, then, is the   most important factor in living a Yogic life. This spirit is the most essential   factor which makes a life spiritual. In the light of this, we have to consider   what those factors are which we can include in our daily family life which will   enable us to be united with God in the interior of our being.         | 
  
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          Sri   Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In The HomeSri   Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In The Home, We take up   now the vital subject of how, being in the midst of worldly activities one may   yet fulfil the supreme purpose, the spiritual purpose of life on earth. While   both the secular life and the spiritual life are a part of you, it is true that   the spheres of the two are different, in the sense that the secular life has its   sphere outside of yourself and the spiritual life has its sphere within   yourself. But then, your spiritual life does have some expression outwardly   also, and wherever you are, there your spiritual life has to be. If you are in a   family set-up and living the work-a-day life in the busy field of worldly   activity, then your spiritual life must be there. This interior life cannot be   created by bringing about visible external changes in yourself or in your   circumstances at energyenhancement.org
 
 
Sri   Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In The Home, 1.A Story   From the Life of Ramakrishna ParamahamsaSri Swami Sivananda, The Path   Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In The Home, 1.A Story From the Life of   Ramakrishna Paramahamsa, In various ways great Masters have tried to bring home   this truth to seekers and an incident comes to my minda very familiar story and   not too ancient. It was in the life of Sri Ramakrishna, the spiritual preceptor   of the famous Swami Vivekananda. In his early life, Sri Ramakrishna was a priest   in a Hindu temple in Calcutta, then the Capital City of India. This temple was   founded by a lady who was something of a small queen. The wife of a native ruler   and a lady of immense riches, she had the temple built with a fabulous sum of   money and endowed it with rich lands. She was a very devout lady in spite of her   great wealth and affluence at energyenhancement.org
 
 
Sri   Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In The Home, 2.The Four   Main Aspects of an Individuals LifeSri Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond   Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In The Home, 2.The Four Main Aspects of an Individuals   Life, Of course, we take it for granted that the first thing is to be conscious   of ones purpose in life. Ever be conscious of why you are living. Ever be   conscious of what purpose you are to fulfil in life. That is the most important   thing. Know that the whole meaning of life is the utilizing of its every moment   to attain the supreme purpose at energyenhancement.org
 
 
Sri   Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In The Home, 3.The   Sanctity of MarriageSri Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter   9: Yoga In The Home, 3.The Sanctity of Marriage, In various ways great Masters   have tried to bring home this truth to seekers and an incident comes to my minda   very familiar story and not too ancient. It was in the life of Sri Ramakrishna,   the spiritual preceptor of the famous Swami Vivekananda. In his early life, Sri   Ramakrishna was a priest in a Hindu temple in Calcutta, then the Capital City of   India. This temple was founded by a lady who was something of a small queen. The   wife of a native ruler and a lady of immense riches, she had the temple built   with a fabulous sum of money and endowed it with rich lands. She was a very   devout lady in spite of her great wealth and affluence at energyenhancement.org
 
 
Sri   Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In The Home, 4.The HomeA   Sacred PlaceSri Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga   In The Home, 4.The HomeA Sacred Place, The home should be known to be a sacred   place. The home is to be a sort of counterbalancing factor for all the bustle,   for all the restless activity, of your daily professional life. The moment you   leave home and go into your professional activity, your whole mind, your entire   personality, is brought out. You are to be active. You are to give your   attention to things of this world and, therefore, your recollectedness is lost.   You are brought away from your centre so that your inner spiritual closeness to   God is completely lost when you go into your professional activityyour   day-to-day life. Now, when you come back home, the home life is meant to be an   effective counterbalancing factor. In the home you are Self-centred, you are   recollected, you are in God at energyenhancement.org
 
 
Sri   Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In The Home, 5.Spiritual   Guidance to ChildrenSri Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter   9: Yoga In The Home, 5.Spiritual Guidance to Children, The training of the   children comes next. It is a great and onerous responsibility of the parents.   You are only the trustees of these souls and have no permanent connection with   themthe children whom God has given to youand you should try to do what you can   in the little time they pass through your hands to touch them and make their   lives more radiant for their having come to you. Therefore, the proper training   of children is one of the most onerous duties, and if this is done in the   attitude of being privileged to be the parent of His own children, then   everything you do towards your children becomes part of your Karma Yoga, becomes   part of your own spiritual unfoldment. For, by giving to them the spiritual   impulse, the spiritual life, by your own ideal lives, you become the partaker of   Gods life, because you fulfil the great gospel of Karma Yoga, viz., selfless   activity without attachment, with only love in your heart, in order to do some   good to others. If you train them along the path which will take them to their   eternal welfare, to true blessedness, then that is the highest bestowal that one   person can confer upon another in this earth-plane at energyenhancement.org
 
 
Sri   Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In The Home, 6.A   Spiritual Daily Routine for the HouseholderSri Swami Sivananda, The Path   Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In The Home, 6.A Spiritual Daily Routine for the   Householder, Each householder should have an ideal daily routine. The home life   should not be left to itself, but taken care of. In addition to those unexpected   things that come up every daya visit of someone, a telephone call, an invitation   to go out with someoneevery one of you should have an accepted basic programme,   a basic schedule for your daily life, which should include an hour of prayer in   the morning and an hour Of prayer in the evening. The prayer hour might include   the reading of scriptural texts, the reading of sacred and inspiring spiritual   books, a few minutes of quiet, indrawn meditation, a few minutes of actually   articulated prayer, inspiring prayer. The prayer can be spontaneous; it does not   necessarily have to come out of some book. Or it can be both, as there are some   very inspiring short prayers in the Gospel and also in some other books. The   children should also be trained in this way at energyenhancement.org
 
 
Sri   Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In The Home, 7.Dynamic   SpiritualityRemembering GodSri Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow   Chapter 9: Yoga In The Home, 7.Dynamic SpiritualityRemembering God, Throughout   the house you may have any number of external symbols which bring to you the   thought of God. Perhaps tastefully framed mottoes: ALL LIFE IS SACRED, GOD IS   HERE NOW, BE GOOD, DO GOOD, BE KIND, BE PURE, SPEAK THE TRUTH, NEVER HURT THE   FEELINGS OF OTHERS, SEE GOD IN ALL FACES, TRUTH IS GOD, GOD IS LOVE, etc. And   pictures. Every day, when the householder starts from home for his work, he   should have five minutes of prayer, when he should say: Now, Oh Lord, from this   Blessed Abode of Thine, where I am privileged to pass my days, I go out to   worship Thee through my bodily activities, through my work. May all that I do   today with body and mind be accepted by Thee as my worship, as my Karma Yoga, as   my dynamic prayer. Only after uttering this little prayer should the householder   leave his home at energyenhancement.org
 
 
Sri   Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In The Home, 8.The Curse   of FashionSri Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In   The Home, 8.The Curse of Fashion, Along with all this, live a simple life. It is   in the simple life that mind moves upon a straight path without wavering.   Whereas, it is dispersed and scattered if life is made too complex and too much   filled with an accumulation of objects. Have a simple life and do not be too   concerned about your physical existence, about care of your body, about your   beauty, your dress at energyenhancement.org
 
 
Sri   Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In The Home, 9.The Value   of TimeSri Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In   The Home, 9.The Value of Time, Realize the value of time. Utilize every minute,   and with great niggardliness, try to salvage every minute and add it to your   spiritual life. Do not have the habit of gossipgenteel gossip. It is one of the   social qualificationswhen two persons are together, they must have some gentle   back-chat about a third person. If that is done, you are destroying your own   life, you are wasting time. Life is time, and time is verily life. If you just   fritter away precious minutes and hours in loose chatter and gossip and a little   genteel scandal-mongering, it means you are robbing yourself of the most   precious thing in lifethe rare opportunity to attain God at   energyenhancement.org
 
 
Sri   Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9: Yoga In The Home, 10.Some   Concluding RemarksSri Swami Sivananda, The Path Beyond Sorrow Chapter 9:   Yoga In The Home, 10.Some Concluding Remarks, Develop virtue as a rule in your   life. Let virtue be the criterion with which you judge all your thoughts, all   your actions, all your speech. Is it virtuous or not? That should be the   yardstick to guide you in your life. And the principle should be to move towards   Godever and ever at energyenhancement.org
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